Here is an excerpt from my book, The Silent Master: Awakening the Power Within:
One of the comments I hear many times from the people I work with is that they feel alone, isolated, or separate. If you feel alone and unfulfilled you undoubtedly are trying to be a copy of someone else because your true Self feels whole and complete with or without the presence of another. Or, perhaps you’re trying to find yourself in someone else, hiding behind their stronger personality instead of finding your own strong and unique Self.
But your true self feels whole and complete whether or not you are alone. The true meaning of alone is all one. When you are one with your true self, one with your own Silent Master consciousness, you are one with the universe, one with all that is. When you feel your true Self, you feel at rest in the wholeness of things, but you also know you are original and unique. Although you feel yourself as a separate, special individuality, you do not feel empty and unfulfilled. You feel true, and pure, and good and whole. Most importantly, you feel enthusiastic, creative and joyful. This is the natural state of your true being.