In my book, Seven Steps to Inner Power:
“When you decide to make a change, achieve a goal, or create something new in your life, you must focus your objective clearly in your mind. The thought form, “I desire a change in my social life” will take form somehow, but it may be so vague and indistinct that you won’t notice a change. “I desire to meet more people” is better; “I desire to meet more people who share my interest in flying airplanes (or whatever)” is better still. Focus as specifically as possible on what you want to accomplish.”